Inner Game and Revelations

I have been working on inner game quite a bit. So comment with some GOOD material for inner game people!! The thing about inner game that I have noticed is that it takes time to develop. You don’t wake up one day packed with inner game and open sets like your Brad Pitt on the Sunset Strip.

Some important lessons that I have learned the hard way in recent days are as follows:

1) When you get buyers remorse its not the end of the world. Give her some space and then open her back up. Build comfort when you are with her again and don’t fuck her but keep a sexual tension there. After that apply the 10 hour rule and bam, your balls deep again. Make sure to keep the sexual tension there and do this by take aways! Making her work to win you over is something that I found works VERY well for buyers remorse. This is kind of delicate because if you crowd her then you are fucked but if you don’t stay visible (metaphorically) you are going to confirm her suspicions of being there for one thing.

2) Control the frame and control the interaction! Girls think about sex … A LOT. The trick is to escalate your frame through routines like role playing and pushing her away as things get heated. Remember the frame is the ultimate meaning in a conversation. If I said to you, “She is coming” it could mean that she is coming over or she is about to orgasm. You would be surprised what you can get away with, with a little frame controlling. Always ask yourself who is controlling the frame right now. In addition to this, make sure to turn this off when you are around friends. So many people cannot separate their pua skills from just people a normal person and that leads to becoming a social robot.

3) Push the limits of your comfortable nature. Some of the best PUA’s in the world say things that make me think they are nuts but their frame control and compliance testing is second to none. You have to push the limits of what you think is socially acceptable to get a reaction that most men will never get. Tyler has his students open sets with, “I like salad” because he knows that it is not what you are saying that gets you laid it is how you are saying it. You HAVE to push your limits and try new things so you know how to properly calibrate what works and what doesn’t.