Comfort, its how you play the game

I want to start this off by quoting the great Doc Holliday

You have to accept girls for who they are. You cannot be judgmental of anything they tell you. Once you start to create a real emotional connection with women, they will probably tell you fucked up shit about their lives that you wish they never told you. You can't think of women as sluts or whores. People fuck up. We're humans, we make bad decisions, but that's what makes us who we are and you learn from it and move on.

There are things in my past that I am not proud of but it is because of our struggles that we build character. Pick up is so much more then lays and girls it is a lifestyle. Most of what pick up teaches is how to interact better with people in general. I really feel bad for people when they bring this stigma into the community that girls are the reason they are going to be happy. When you are good at pick up you start to build VERY strong emotional connections with the girls you talk to and thus they spill their hearts out to you. This can be very shocking at first if you have not build a strong connection with a girl.

As trust and rapport is built you see the inner person who’s flaws and strengths make up their character. The more you share your lives the deeper the emotional connection becomes. Women respond to emotion MUCH more then guys do, thus trust and comfort are build which tend to be essential qualities for any sort of encounter. If you cannot handle the fucked up shit that each person brings to the table I HIGHLY suggest that you spend sometime working on yourself and getting a strong frame.

Finally, these emotional experiences are legit and mean a lot to both people, it is not really about gaming but about experiencing what led you too together. Do not jump off the seat in reaction if she says something you don’t like, be understanding because we ALL have issues in our past.

Once you experience this you know that you have some DEEP COMFORT