Inner Game: Part 3 "Projected Value"

I titled this post "Projected Value" because we project our value in relation to a targets all the time.

When you see a girl you process your value compared to hers.

Read that sentence again. … Ok ONE MORE TIME. That is what you are doing when you are thinking about the approach. Basically value is a magnet, it is dragging around your perception all the time. Once you internalize that your value is a 10 and other potential approachable targets have a lower value because you don’t know them…. Yet.. you will start to over come the entire thing. Remember that being attracting to women is something you are not something you do.

Now, how can you tie this into inner game?

First make sure that you are writing about your thoughts, feelings and experiences.

Second, make sure that you are actually approaching.

How you can use meditation in combination with game. Well Hypnotica has some products that are really good for this same thing. Meditation will help with being high strung and can help with confidence if you use it properly. If you do get Hypnotica’s collection of confidence and the disk 2 meditation is WONDERFUL! I use that every night. Another awesome product that you can get easy is, Brian Weiss eliminating stress. I really like the self hypnosis he does in that cd.

The following exercise I use to help people highlight where they are (perceived-self) to where they want to be, (future-self)

Step 1: Highlight all the words that you think describe the ideal person you want to be, the person you believe is the full potential of who you are and will ever be.

attractive, beautiful, appealing, cool, spiritual, wise, nice, friendly, faithful, leader of men, strong, supportive, centered, ethical, principled, honest, warm, loving, tender, warmhearted, demonstrative, caring, kind, affectionate, cordial, hospitable, welcoming, cheerful, passionate, fiery, enthusiastic, zealous, arrogant, egocentric, confidant in social situations, sympathetic, humane, selfless, smart, independent, free, gentle, thoughtful, domineering, submissive, autonomous, creative, compassionate, self-sufficient, private, liberated, conventional, alpha, elegant, clever, stylish, intelligent, quick witted, charming, tidy neat, thoughtful, attentive, careful, watchful, alert, reliable, inspiring, inventive, resourceful, ingenious, productive, exciting, energetic, lively, vigorous, bouncy, active, joyful, blissful, pleased, ecstatic, cheery, rational, sensible, reasonable, complete, capable, genuine, proud, approachable, able to approach others, peaceful, honest, giving, nurturing, accomplished, whole, perfect, undivided, achiever, great, confident, compassionate, content, humble, unassuming, happy, satisfied, comfortable, at ease, relaxed, knowledgeable, skilled, proficient, expert, adept, rich, wealthy, affluent, prosperous, full, valuable, abundant mentality, fruitful, powerful, deep, prolific, understanding, dynamic, useful, helpful, constructive, beneficial, positive, functional, worthwhile, able to attract women, make positive choices, belief in yourself

Now count the number of words you circled in Step 1.

Step 2: Now highlight the words below that describe how you actually are at present.

attractive, beautiful, appealing, cool, spiritual, wise, nice, friendly, faithful, leader of men, strong, supportive, centered, ethical, principled, honest, warm, loving, tender, warmhearted, demonstrative, caring, kind, affectionate, cordial, hospitable, welcoming, cheerful, passionate, fiery, enthusiastic, zealous, arrogant, egocentric, confidant in social situations, sympathetic, humane, selfless, smart, independent, free, gentle, thoughtful, domineering, submissive, autonomous, creative, compassionate, self-sufficient, private, liberated, conventional, alpha, elegant, clever, stylish, intelligent, quick witted, charming, tidy neat, thoughtful, attentive, careful, watchful, alert, reliable, inspiring, inventive, resourceful, ingenious, productive, exciting, energetic, lively, vigorous, bouncy, active, joyful, blissful, pleased, ecstatic, cheery, rational, sensible, reasonable, complete, capable, genuine, proud, approachable, able to approach others, peaceful, honest, giving, nurturing, accomplished, whole, perfect, undivided, achiever, great, confident, compassionate, content, humble, unassuming, happy, satisfied, comfortable, at ease, relaxed, knowledgeable, skilled, proficient, expert, adept, rich, wealthy, affluent, prosperous, full, valuable, abundant mentality, fruitful, powerful, deep, prolific, understanding, dynamic, useful, helpful, constructive, beneficial, positive, functional, worthwhile, able to attract women, make positive choices, belief in yourself

Now count the number of words you circled in Step 2.

Step 3. Where are you now and what are you going to do to obtain the things that you want? Spend time creating a plan and journaling how you are going to obtain these things to be the ideal person you want to be.