Interview!!! Window Shopping for Women

Hey All,

For a long time I have wanted to interview people in the community who I have met that really stood out. I want all my readers and anyone who finds this blog to be able to get access to the same material that has helped me on so many occasions. The following is an interview with Race from Window Shopping for Women. They are a company that teaches guys how to pick up girls online. Their material and products are 100% solid so I wanted to give all my readers a taste of their products through this interview. These guys are in my opinion the cutting edge of online game.

First take a look at their introductory video!

Hey Race, Tell us a bit about how this all got started for you

Well we were just a couple of guys who just inadvertently stumbled across this ridiculously effective system for meeting and dating women online using sites like myspace and facebook. Kelly actually originally discovered how effective it was while doing a promotions job online. He had such ridiculous stories I had to sit him down and see what the hell he was doing to get the amazing results he was getting He sat me down.. showed me how to 'reformat' my profile, write messages to practically ensure a response, and how to transition those interactions into dates. Within literally two weeks I had met like 40 women. Since then we have spent the last year refining it for any guy to use with the same results. We really want guys to learn this stuff, we want to provide any means to help them learn it easily.

Can you give me an example of a typical message interaction? Like how does it go down for you.

Well we usually just browse for the type of women we are looking for in our area and send out an opener that is out of the ordinary, something that catches their attention and (along with our profile) sets us apart from all the other lame messages girls are getting that day. After they respond, we transition into role-playing, games, etc to make a connection. We like to keep it light and fun not showing too much interest. Here is an example of part of an interaction:

Subject: Caught you...

From: Race

Date: Oct 24, 2007 11:46 AM

hey you are that one girl who tried to molest me at the club the other night...naughty naughty haha

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From: Her

Date: Oct 24, 2007 12:59 PM

oh really...hmm sorry bout that...it's your fault for being cute

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From: Race

Date: Oct 24, 2007 4:34 PM

dang it! I knew I should have put on those glasses and a fake mustache..haha

so what's your story mrs. mollester lady? you get extra points for creativity :)

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From: Her

Date: Oct 24, 2007 11:16 PM

creativity?! i am not creative that sucks! About me....my favorite subject...not!! I work a lot (like 7 days a week) and party almost as much...what about you Mr. Victim of my molesting?

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From: Race

Date: Oct 25, 2007 11:24 AM

me? little-ol-me...well let's see. I ride dolphins, am developing a social psychology consulting business, get molested by cute girls at clubs and can bake 30 min brownies in 29 mins.

I can't believe you are not creative...let's try something to be sure. Would you rather:

Live in a mansion by the lake or a shack on the beach

Have to always say what's on your mind or only speak pig latin

Have a year of amazing, toe curling sex and then a year of no sex or two years of so so sex

Good luck :)

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"What would you say are the most important things people can do to get results online."

First and foremost you have to have your profile set up properly. Many times guys come to us for advice and are very frustrated that they aren't getting any results. After a few very important tweaks to their profile they are amazed that girls they messaged before are now actually responding. In fact, this is such an important issue we just created a whole video training series on the subject completely for FREE. They actually just went up today

http://windowshoppingforwomen.com

How has learning this changed your interactions with women online and off line?

It really helps in almost every essence with women. Weather or not you are meeting women from myspace/facebook to 'date' them, adding women to your life what ever the reason helps. Adding tons of social proof and social value, on top of that the role of 'dating' is actually flipped. When a women makes the decision to agree to meet up she is acknowledging to herself that she is attracted to you, that means when she meets you she is hoping you are attracted to her versus you opening a girl in public and having her initially aware that you are already into her she starts off attracted to you when you meet. Many guys have a huge fear of rejection or "approach anxiety" as they say in the community. When you approach a girl online that is completely taken away. As they get better at interacting with women, even if it is online, it gives them more confidence in person.

What advice would you give to people looking to expand the amount of women they can meet online.

Well after you set up your profile correctly and learn the proper way to interact with women online your options are almost limitless. There are seriously every type of girl imaginable online: models, promo girls, the girl next door, tattooed girls, hippie girls, your grandma, etc The best part is when you meet up with girls online they usually bring their friends so you double or triple the amount of girls in your life almost instantly. It truly is incredible!

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Make sure to check these guys out and sign up for FREE advice on their newsletter you can find it all including training videos:

http://windowshoppingforwomen.com

Buying Temperature..

Sales-representatives use a term that the community has adopted and once you understand how it works it will change the way you look at social interactions forever. That term is buying temperature. I define buying temperature (or BT) as; the level of general attraction a girl feels at any given time, it is the woman's emotional receptivity and her level of general attraction to the PUA.

With proper calibration, you can pump a girl’s BT through the roof and generate a substantial amount of attraction, comfort and physical escalation. The purpose of this post is to explain how to pump BT.

Dancing- This is one of my common tactics that I like to use to both create attraction as well as qualify her ("So you are beautiful but.. are you good dancer? Or do you just shake your ass like all the other girls?"). Saffron calls this challenge game. I use dancing to isolate, pump up her attraction and adrenaline, and escalate the physical. At this time, I display push/pull and a willingness to walk away until she gets my attention. My goal in dance floor game is simply escalation and to create a sexual tension that I break. An easy variation of this is to spin her as if you are doing a swing dance. Girls love to spin and it is an easy BT pump.

Fake Fighting - I like to do this a lot as well. Maybe a girl will accidentally bump into me. Instead of saying "Sorry" you can pretend to throw down with the girl. "Wha-wha-what? You wanna throw down? Let's see what you GOT?!" Again, it's silly but it's a fun thing to do and shows that you're really not taking the girl too serious. Make sure that you are being totally playful and smiling all the time. I will also tell her that is it I am sick of your tuff attitude and challenge her to a thumb-wrestling match to build kino.

Cold Read – One thing I like to do is in qualifying a girl I will cold read her which really helps pump BT. I will tell her, “You look like your from NY, I bet your are a troublemaker.” Slight back turn then reinitiate. Most times, you'll get pulled back in where they'll laugh and qualify themselves. Cold reads that pump BT are designed to push her buttons. Sexual framing fits VERY well into the cold read BT pump as you escalate through kino this will shoot her BT into orbit!

These are three ways to pump BT and with a little in field practice you will get the hang of this rather quickly.

Inner Game: Part 3 "Projected Value"

I titled this post "Projected Value" because we project our value in relation to a targets all the time.

When you see a girl you process your value compared to hers.

Read that sentence again. … Ok ONE MORE TIME. That is what you are doing when you are thinking about the approach. Basically value is a magnet, it is dragging around your perception all the time. Once you internalize that your value is a 10 and other potential approachable targets have a lower value because you don’t know them…. Yet.. you will start to over come the entire thing. Remember that being attracting to women is something you are not something you do.

Now, how can you tie this into inner game?

First make sure that you are writing about your thoughts, feelings and experiences.

Second, make sure that you are actually approaching.

How you can use meditation in combination with game. Well Hypnotica has some products that are really good for this same thing. Meditation will help with being high strung and can help with confidence if you use it properly. If you do get Hypnotica’s collection of confidence and the disk 2 meditation is WONDERFUL! I use that every night. Another awesome product that you can get easy is, Brian Weiss eliminating stress. I really like the self hypnosis he does in that cd.

The following exercise I use to help people highlight where they are (perceived-self) to where they want to be, (future-self)

Step 1: Highlight all the words that you think describe the ideal person you want to be, the person you believe is the full potential of who you are and will ever be.

attractive, beautiful, appealing, cool, spiritual, wise, nice, friendly, faithful, leader of men, strong, supportive, centered, ethical, principled, honest, warm, loving, tender, warmhearted, demonstrative, caring, kind, affectionate, cordial, hospitable, welcoming, cheerful, passionate, fiery, enthusiastic, zealous, arrogant, egocentric, confidant in social situations, sympathetic, humane, selfless, smart, independent, free, gentle, thoughtful, domineering, submissive, autonomous, creative, compassionate, self-sufficient, private, liberated, conventional, alpha, elegant, clever, stylish, intelligent, quick witted, charming, tidy neat, thoughtful, attentive, careful, watchful, alert, reliable, inspiring, inventive, resourceful, ingenious, productive, exciting, energetic, lively, vigorous, bouncy, active, joyful, blissful, pleased, ecstatic, cheery, rational, sensible, reasonable, complete, capable, genuine, proud, approachable, able to approach others, peaceful, honest, giving, nurturing, accomplished, whole, perfect, undivided, achiever, great, confident, compassionate, content, humble, unassuming, happy, satisfied, comfortable, at ease, relaxed, knowledgeable, skilled, proficient, expert, adept, rich, wealthy, affluent, prosperous, full, valuable, abundant mentality, fruitful, powerful, deep, prolific, understanding, dynamic, useful, helpful, constructive, beneficial, positive, functional, worthwhile, able to attract women, make positive choices, belief in yourself

Now count the number of words you circled in Step 1.

Step 2: Now highlight the words below that describe how you actually are at present.

attractive, beautiful, appealing, cool, spiritual, wise, nice, friendly, faithful, leader of men, strong, supportive, centered, ethical, principled, honest, warm, loving, tender, warmhearted, demonstrative, caring, kind, affectionate, cordial, hospitable, welcoming, cheerful, passionate, fiery, enthusiastic, zealous, arrogant, egocentric, confidant in social situations, sympathetic, humane, selfless, smart, independent, free, gentle, thoughtful, domineering, submissive, autonomous, creative, compassionate, self-sufficient, private, liberated, conventional, alpha, elegant, clever, stylish, intelligent, quick witted, charming, tidy neat, thoughtful, attentive, careful, watchful, alert, reliable, inspiring, inventive, resourceful, ingenious, productive, exciting, energetic, lively, vigorous, bouncy, active, joyful, blissful, pleased, ecstatic, cheery, rational, sensible, reasonable, complete, capable, genuine, proud, approachable, able to approach others, peaceful, honest, giving, nurturing, accomplished, whole, perfect, undivided, achiever, great, confident, compassionate, content, humble, unassuming, happy, satisfied, comfortable, at ease, relaxed, knowledgeable, skilled, proficient, expert, adept, rich, wealthy, affluent, prosperous, full, valuable, abundant mentality, fruitful, powerful, deep, prolific, understanding, dynamic, useful, helpful, constructive, beneficial, positive, functional, worthwhile, able to attract women, make positive choices, belief in yourself

Now count the number of words you circled in Step 2.

Step 3. Where are you now and what are you going to do to obtain the things that you want? Spend time creating a plan and journaling how you are going to obtain these things to be the ideal person you want to be.

Quotes from this weekend..

Hey all,
I promise more inner game stuff this week but I wanted to give you some examples of frame control in sets that I ran this weekend.

Mayson: Because right now you are trying not to kiss me even you know you want to.

HBrandomblond: You’re a pimp.

Mayson: What?? You’re a pimp?

HBrandomblond: No.. YOU’RE a pimp

Mayson: Euro pimp? Cool!

Mayson: So seriously, we are just talking I don’t want anything from you and you don’t want anything from me just a good conversation is all.

HBbootygirl: yah (big smile)… wow your game is so much better then his (points to a friend)

Mayson: So where do we know each other from

HBasian1: I don’t know but we totally do

Mayson: Do you go to ____ a lot I know a promoter who works there

HBasian1: Yah I do.. That has to be where it is from..

Mayson: Yah you must have been one of my groupies

HBasian1: haha I love your style I totally would be

Mayson: Would be? You mean are

Mayson: (on the dance floor opens a 4 set by dancing like a nut, girls giggle)

HBgirl1: hahaha my friend loves your style and wants to meet you

Mayson: I left my ticket counter at home but she can ride for a small price.

HBgrabsalot: (grabbing my necklace) I want that!

Mayson: wow.. slow down many girls do but I need to know you before you get it.

HBgrabsalot: (big smile) no that.. (points at my necklace)

Mayson: Yah, I get that.. what were you thinking.. wait.. your trouble I know your type!

Sexual Minset.

Lots of new material coming soon that I use for inner game but first I want to talk about sexual minsets. The following is an except from Captain Jack's Blog which I am convinced is one of the best FREE tools around.

But, what do MOST guys try to do? They try to get an emotional connection and THEN go sexual... doesn't work that way.

Waste o' time.

She WANTS sex. She got fucking dressed up for 2 hours to get everything just right so a guy would notice her and come talk to her so she could possibly (finally) get laid by someone new.

So, quit being so goddamned stingy and give her what she wants. If she wanted a nice tame conversation, an enjoyable dinner and a PG-13 movie she could simply answer one of the ass kissing texts or voice mails of the horde of chodes she's given her number to (so they'd finally leave) in the past couple of weeks.

But, she hasn't done that has she? Nope.

This is a point that I have read about 6 times a day for the last 3 days. This is one point that once you internalize it and commit it to your set of beliefs will change your game for good. I want to you imagine for a minute that you are talking with a friend and your friend asks for a drink of water. You oblige and get him a glass without even thinking twice because he has a need and you want to fulfill that.

Women want sex. They want it more then guys many times and because of social conditioning they are taught to suppress it because it is not socially acceptable for a women to sleep with multiple guys but news flash people, they do. This does not make them evil or wrong, it makes them human.

Practical Pickup Bootcamp April 12th and 13th

I know I am slacking on the blog here but LOTS of stuff going on..

Here is another GREAT chance to train with the Practical Pick Up Team!!


Hey Guys,

We've announced our April bootcamp and our website is up and running!

Details below

www.practicalpickup.com


"A week after the bootcamp, I definitely notice an improvement in my game. I’m getting better at building comfort and am starting to get numbers. True these numbers often turn out to be wood, but you have to start somewhere. I also liked that the instructors have told us that they aren’t looking for clients but rather long-term relationships with their students. One of the students has told me that he has already exchanged several e-mails with Mayson on inner game. Good luck getting Tyler Durden to pay attention to you after your money is in his pocket.
Obviously this bootcamp doesn’t compare with the Authentic Man Program but it definitely compares with Art of Attraction. Though it should be obvious from the name, practical pickup is more “practical”. Instead of running exercises looking in the mirror and saying what we saw like we did at AOA, I got to listen to tips from Doc about how to set up a day two. Instead of being taken to lunch on Sunday as I was with AOA, I got practical experience at the day-game location."


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This is exactly why we are running this bootcamp. We hope that each and every one of our students has that "A HA!" moment, and sees how their game really comes together. We teach a very natural type of approach that looks to build off your personal strengths and shows you how to make a person attracted to YOU and not some routine. At the same time, we're comprehensive and we hope to provide you with all the PRACTICAL parts of attraction. We sent out anonymous feedback forms to all of our students and 100% of them stated that they are currently recommending our bootcamp to their friends--no, they didn't reply that they "would likely recommend in the future," but rather that they are currently, going out there on their own accord to tell their friends about us, because they believe that we're fully committed to improving your game. We already had some of the students' friends sign up for our next bootcamp. Jump to the bottom of this post for student testimonials.

We're constantly working on our material and pushing the edge to innovate within the community. No where else will you find a more comprehensive bootcamp focused on teaching all the aspects of practical pick-up. We don't waste your time with evolutionary theory or vague conceptions of female dynamics. We don't serve you bull about "magic pills" to hook every girl you meet in your life. We teach field-tested, student-validated methods for night game, day game, and inner game. We've also grown as teachers and have finessed through all the logistical issues of running a bootcamp. Even though our waiting list is almost full (we stand by a firm number of 6 students, 3 instructors, and 1 approach coach per bootcamp), we still want to open up our bootcamp to the general public, so that we can assemble a strong, diverse group of students.

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After all this positive feedback from our students, I sat down with Doc and Entropy and we thought long and hard about our next bootcamp. We're packing in as much value as we can for the 23 hours that we teach in a weekend, and we want to be able to offer it for the best value possible. While RSD and MM charge $2000+, we're only charging $750 for our upcoming bootcamps. Thats less than a third of the industry price for a 20+ hour bootcamp, with a 3:2 student ratio that is unmatched throughout the community. Even though our bootcamp is almost filled and demand is very high, we wanted to make sure that we offered a very reasonable value, because we're committed to seeing our students grow in their game. Our last bootcamp sold out in less than 4 days. Make sure you don't miss out on this fantastic opportunity.

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• Day-Game Based Immediate Attraction Openers
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Night Game:
• Night-Game Customized Immediate Attraction Openers
• Dance Floor Game Deconstructed
• Sexualized Eye Contact and Seductive Kino
• Customized Routines
• Comprehensive Cold Reading
• Powerstacking -- Individually-based, Topic-linked stacks
• Immediate & Personalized In-field Feedback & much, much more…
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By taking our bootcamp, we guarantee you access to us as support for the next 3 months into your pickup career. Remember, we are here to build relationships, not clients. We still keep in touch with all of our students from our past bootcamp. We will also be developing more advanced material, which we will make first available to you. Finally we will be able to help you acquire discounts to ABCofAttraction bootcamps and El Topo's services, should you wish to continue your pickup education elsewhere. So what are you waiting for? Sign up now before we're sold out again.

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