One of the realizations about the game that has hit me so hard in the past week is the all around freedom you feel in your life. When I was an AFC, I would focus on one girl who would give me the attention I wanted. I would fixate on what nice things I could do to make her like me. Now that I am in the community and learning pick up I am still having the feelings associated with a crush but I have it on many of the girls I game. I know how these feelings work and now I control them. I do not fixate my hopes, dreams and aspiration on one girl because I am worth more then that.
I got my first full close the other night and now the girl is flaking a bit saying,
“This happened so quickly, what did I do.” (sounds like buyers remorse to me lol)
When I was an AFC I would let this kill my self esteem. Honestly, I am smiling and happy this is happening right now. I was thinking that I was going to have to explain AGAIN that I did not want a relationship right now etc but she is quoting what I would have said to her.
The pick-up arts are not about racking up lays to me. I enjoy the process SOOOOO much that it has become my new crush. Being shut down is a thrill because through it I learn calibration on a level that is MUCH faster then when I spout the same old stuff and get the same successful results. I fear the approach just like anyone else but it is my ability to react that makes me successful in the pick up.
I started in this community hoping to enrich my life with new beautiful women. Now only 2 months into my transformation I find the game taking over my life. I spend more time playing this game then I ever thought. I write my own routines, go out 4 times a week, teach others, help them write material, fail, succeed, re-calibrate, read, listen, watch and live it.
Gone are the days of being that needy guy who pushed a relationship on that ONE girl who I thought would change me for the better. Now I am changing me for the better, I am the catalyst mixing the right amount of ingredients to become that person I always had inside of me.
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