Exercise 1 was all about identifying your personal inner game sticking points. The next part to this puzzle if taking the time to write down your goals. I want to first talk about goals and why they are important. Goals allow you to focus on a task in which you have markers to see your success. Goals keep us accountable to our actions and reward us with plenty of positive momentum when we achieve them. There are however a couple of rules to goals that I will outline right now.
Exercise #2 Creating the new you.
First off you are going to need to take a good amount of time to do this exercise. The rules are simple, you are going to write down goals for yourself however you must follow these guide lines.
1) Write goal in the positive. This means that you cannot be negative in your goal you must BE POSITIVE.
2) Write complete detail. Take time and really flush out what you mean when you write your goal. The more detailed your goal the better the results will be. This takes time but is well worth it.
3) Write in presence tense. Act as if they are happening right now with phrases like I AM and I CAN. This allows you to own the goal from the start.
4) Rewrite goals. As you achieve milestones in your goals rewrite them and spend time making them precisely what you want.
I want to give you some laws that I live my life by. These have been influenced by my experiences with inner game and have shaped my relativity consistently.
Law #1 You create yourself you don’t find yourself.
There is not magic pill for life and no easy way to learn pick up. You are not on a quest to find yourself you are on a quest to create yourself plain and simple. You choose the behavior or thought, you choose the consequences. If you choose to be better with women through pick up then you will have more beautiful women in your life. If you choose to half ass pick up you will see limited results. If you choose thoughts contaminated with anger and bitterness, then you will create an experience of alienation and hostility.
Law #2 Try, Fail, Try.
You have to fall off your bike before you ride with the best. No one is successful until they fail many times but it is through our failures that we learn what does and doesn’t work. You want to be good at pick up then learn how to take your failures and turn them into lessons. Fully embrace the fact that you are going to fail but it doesn’t make you a failure.
Law #3 Its not about Deception it is about Perception.
Nothing exists only your perception of existence. I tell students all the time that pick up is NOT about deception… It is about perception. If I look, act, smell, fuck and get treated like a rockstar I AM a rockstar. You are what you create you are and the perception of who you are is vital to this game. You have the ability to choose how you perceive any event in your life, and you exercise this power of choice in every circumstance, every day of your life.
Law #4 Passion is more rewarding then Principal.
You have to be passionate about what you are doing. Is pick up a hobby for you or is it a lifestyle? That is the million dollar question for everyone who gets in this community. See a hobby is fun and you do it in your spare time but ultimately you do not devote any serious work to it. A lifestyle is something you embrace that consumes you and drives you to deeper and deeper levels of success. The people who are the best at this game have lifestyles that they have worked very hard on to the point of obsessive behavior. I am not telling you to quit your job but I am telling you to ignore the principal of the game and get passionate about it.
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