Halloween

I love this time of year...

The debauchery of the weekend continues tonight.. Stay tuned for a full wrap up

How to write a story

One question that people ask me consistently is how do a write a story that displays value? So today we are going to talk about just that and I will give you a step by step process so you can write your own stories.


How to write a story that displays value.

First off I do not advocate lying in any way shape or form. Each person on this earth has things about their life that other people will find fascinating and the following will teach you how to harness these life experiences into stories that others will find fascinating as well. In your stories you are NOT bragging at all. You are simply telling a story and flipping an attraction switch in the woman so that she will relate to you.

You must take time and develop and test these stories much like a comedian will take their time and work on a joke. These stories are important and will help you generate conversation when you run out of things to say. It is important to keep in mind that the delivery of these stories must be well thought out and planned. If your tonality and delivery is off then your story will lose its value. Finally, always keep in mind that you body language says more then you can say with a million words so keep that in check when you are delivering your stories.

Basic Principals of Your Story.

Flipping the Switch.
The following are well known attraction switches and your story must convey one or more of these principals.

1. Pre-selected by women.
This basically means that you are and have been selected by other women in your past. This is a hybrid of social proof in which it is more directed toward the individual then a peer group.

2. Leader of men.
This displays that we are the alpha male of our group and we have the confidence to lead other men. This is another hybrid of social proof in the sense that you are displaying your leadership qualities.

3. Protector of loved ones.
You must be willing to protect what you love. She needs to understand that you can protect and watch over her. Understand that this does NOT mean you have to display that you can hold your own in a fight. This means that you can be dominate and defuse situations that arise, all the while protecting her.

4. Willing to emote.
You have to be able to display a range of emotions. You want to take her on a rollercoaster ride with bringing her into that range of emotions from happy to crazy to calm to seductive.


5. The willingness to walk away.
In every interaction with a woman there is a point where you have to make it known that as much as you want her you will not beg and you can and will walk at anytime you find the cost is greater then the reward. This concept is vitally important and can give an immense amount of attraction when done correctly.



How To Write Your Story.

The most efficient way to write your story is to answer the following questions.

What are the three most influential people that you know and what do they do?
What places have you traveled to?
How close with your family are you?
What are you passionate about? (art, music, play instruments)
How many languages can you speak?
Have you had a girlfriend in the past?
If you have been in a relationship before what is one cool thing you did together?
Do you have friends who are girls? What are their names?
What do you do for a living? (student, occupation etc)
Do you own your own house, apt or car? (this is not VITAL but helps)
What do you typically do on the weekends?

Now that you have created this list I want you to look it over and see how things can fit into attraction switches based on your life. For instance, let’s say you have traveled to Ireland to go see your favorite band once. Here is a sentence and explanation how it causes the attraction switch to flip.

So my favorite band is Jane’s Addiction and I saw that they had this massive tour in Ireland. So I called my friend Jaime and told him about it and we should go because I thought it would be an amazing adventure to be in a country that we have never visited to see my favorite band….. /end story

Let’s see how we flip the attraction switches with this short story. So you have musical interests that may or may not be like hers but shows that you have an interest in music without a doubt. From there you took an adventure with a friend which shows pre-selection AND leader of men as well as a sense of fun and adventure. All these things were displayed in just a couple of sentences. Obviously your story has the option of continuing as you talk about the experience and how it felt to be there.

Make sure that you PRACTICE your delivery again and again as this step is crucial because 10% of the message is your actually words and 90% is your body language.




Important Thoughts To Keep In Mind

Never Brag. The difference between bragging and talk is all in how you say it. For instance, if you were tell talk about the time you won a trophy in karate this is bragging.

“So I am awesome at karate and I have won a bunch of trophies.”

Here is how you should word it

“So I have always been passionate about karate and have worked hard at it, eventually I got pretty good.”

You are saying the same thing but it is all in how you word it.

Talk At A Rhythmic Pace. Do not talk to fast because the message will not get across and you will sound like you are nervous. On the other hand if you are slower and rhythmic with your pace you will sound in control and confidant.


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News and FR...

I get a good amount of email from people asking me to talk about LRs and FRs but as you see I don’t really find a lot of value in posting them. I am going to break down the interactions of a couple of reports lately in hopes that my readers see it as something that is adding value and shows how you can push the limits of an interaction.

First let me tell you some pretty exciting news. I am putting the last touches on the final version of Path to Pick Up! This is a 6 week guide to improving your social life and it is packed with tons of new exercise. I have worked for a long time on this system that I can offer people who want a hands on approach to making fast improvements in their social lives without paying hundreds and thousands of dollars.



In addition to this I have some great new posts from guests that I will feature on my blog and believe me when I say you will NOT want to miss this. I am going to be updating more and more each week as I travel out of the country this week to teach. So STAY tuned!


FR: Chastity Belt Girl
The venue was packed as a special guest DJ was bringing in lots of people and I just got back from Philly 5 hours before we arrived. To say I was tired was an understatement but one of the things that you notice when you go out a lot is that the nights you least want to go out that greatness happens. We arrived VIP with a bunch of friends including Ganglord, ready to have a blast. When we go out its not about sarging, it is about having a fun time, creating a fun environment and drawing positive attention our way. It’s ironic because even though we never make it about “pick up” we all end up "picking up".

After the manager buys us a couple of rounds of shots we decide to head downstairs to the main area. I get close to the stage and this girl is pointing up on the stage right next to me like she wants to get on it. My female friend is on the stage dancing and I look over at the girl trying to get on stage lets call her HBchastity and tell her you need to know the password to get on stage. She smiles at me seductively and asks what the password is. At this point I bring her in close and whisper in her ear,

“if you don’t know the password then you cannot get on it.”

I set the sexual frame and she smiles even bigger and I catch her glance at my lip ring. I tell her that this is the password, and I kiss her. She tells me she likes that password. I dance with HBchastity for a bit escalating my kino as my hand moves up her thigh. She pushes her ass into me as I feel this weird plastic like thing at the end of her skirt. It’s like her skirt is so dam tight that I cannot get my hand in there. I back off a bit and tell her I will be back.

At this point I see another of the hired dancers up in our VIP area so I stroll back to our table and befriend her male friend. I have seen this guy before he is an awesome dancer and pretty cool guy. So I open the set and lock in between him and her as I take a picture with her. Then HBchastity comes up to our table looking for me and interrupts my set. I introduce them all as she pulls me away. We talk for a bit I get her number and the night is winding down. She asks me to walk outside with her and I walk out of the club with her arm and arm. We get outside and her brother comes out to talk to her and speak in some language I have no idea WTF they are saying. Ganglord is with a dancer so I have no wing to deal with this guy and so I interrupt him and say

“hey man awesome time tonight have you been here before?”

He knows his sister is about to fuck me and is trying to pull her away. They are arguing in some language so I walk over to this Spanish girl I see outside and say,

“wow its crazy when people argue over shit in a language you don’t understand.”

She laughs and says

“what are they arguing over?”

With a smirk on my face I whisper in her ear pushing her hair back….

“Me”


She looks up and smiles and I tell her lets walk across the street and get away from this. I hold out my arm and we walk across the street leaving HBchastity to argue with her brother. HBSpanish and I stop and talk for a bit but we are under a time constraint as I am about to leave and so is she. This guy comes over and starts telling her she has to leave. At this point I am thinking WTF is this with guys pulling these girls. She looks at me and says,

“that is my brother he protects me from guys who try to pick me up in clubs.”

I laughed and asked if he is taking more clients because these girls are crazy here. I talk with her brother showing him I am a cool guy and not some creep and he pretty much hands her to me and says her back in five minutes. Lesson #3,453 BEFRIEND THE GUYS: they hand you their girls, sisters and friends.

I look across the street and see Ganglord in a six set and three DAMN fine girls. I am ready to go over there but first I have to finish business. I end up making out with HBSpanish and getting her number walking her to the car then going to this 6 set. Ganglord is chatting up this beautiful blond girl and he introduces me to her smoking hot blond friend. We hit it off as I tell her about my crazy night of what just when down with the 2 girls and making out with them and how I was disappointed now cause no more fun for me tonight. She mentioned that she didn’t even get kissed tonight so I was ahead of her. We talked for 10 minutes outside as I would drop sexual innuendos that she was trying to get me home with her then drop into comfort, all the while escalating kino. We starting making out on the street. I end the kiss, lick my lips and taste the chapstick of three girls in this strange flavor of wax and berries. The thought brings a smile to my face and as I turn around I see Ganglord kissing his dancer in this passionate embrace I happen to capture on his Iphone…

The night ends as the taste of waxy berry chapstick reminds me that who fucking cares if you are tired, the best things happen when you want to stay home.

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If there were no community...

A few months ago Captain Jack did a blog post called, “What would you do if the community didn’t exist.”

I wanted to put my own spin on this and get a chance to talk about some things that have really opened my eyes to a new world. First here is an excerpt:

Just for a moment, Imagine….

No community. No help whatsoever aside from Barbara DeAngelis and Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus.

No Gurus, No bootcamps, No seminars, No TV shows, No online forums or DVD’s or CD’s. No RSD, Mystery Method, No Speed Seduction….

All of it….Gone.

Imagine a big dupster in your mind and all that stuff going into the dumpster and then the dumpster fades into nothingness.

What do you do?

You are alone with no help.

You still need to meet a sex partner or a girlfriend or lover. Biological urges are the same. But now its just you and girls.

Take this seriously.

What does your heart tell you to do?

Listening to your heart is the key point of interest in this entire topic.

My heart tells me to take action.

My heart tells me that I am more then my appearance

My heart tell me to take a risk and see what happens

My heart tell me to believe

My heart tells me to go

I believe without a doubt that our hearts in a pure context give us the guttural instinct to do the right things. It is emotions that betray us and cause us to misstep. Our emotions can work as a service or a hindrance; it is up to us to decide when to act upon them. So much of this game involves shutting down your emotions and becoming un-reactive which while in principal is excellent to overcome rejection and learn to not take anything personal, if you continue applying this to life you are like Adam Sandler in the movie Click, just going through the motions without reaction. You will fail to make a true connection with people because they will always sense that something is off.

If there was no community, no bootcamps, no TV shows and all of it was gone what would you do? If there was no community, no bootcamps, no TV shows and all of it was gone what would you do? Answer me below in the comments, maybe something you say will help another person out...

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“What would you do if the community didn’t exist.”

FEEDBACK: You're turn to sound-off

I have some awesome readers!!!!!

The emails that I get from my readers are utterly amazing. People asking questions and telling stories that have really changed my out look on so many things. I want to share with you some of the feedback I have gotten from Path to Pick Up …. BUT…

First let me say that I want to hear from you guys more! I want to talk to all the people who read this blog because it is not about me trying to get praise by writing things here.. I write in this blog so that I can help give back to you guys.. so EMAIL ME your questions and comments!! Maysonpua@gmail.com

Now on to Path to Pick Up..

Here is just ONE of the many reviews that are pouring in:

Thanks for everything- really. This program has seriously changed my game and guided me on a personal development journey far beyond just seduction. As of now, I'm not where I eventually hope to be regarding pick up- but it takes time and effort. But, along with this I've been reading and focusing a lot as I said on personal development: and this program has been instrumental in helping me out with that. –Daniel

Path to Pick Up has done more then even I could have expected for people. I am currently in the process of editing some of the course and ADDING MORE to the 6 week program. I am giving the entire thing a new face lift and making it more stream line thanks to the feedback from the 7 great students who have helped me out.

Don’t worry… YOU TOO will be able to experience Path to Pick Up in the near future.. but more on that later.

Impossible is nothing..

First off I want to thank EVERYONE who took part in the FIRST edition of PATH TO PICKUP! I am going to share with you some of the stories that have changed people's game forever and I am truly blessed to be able to have a part in it. Path to Pick up is not gone but is going through its next phase as I re-edit the program with feedback from the students.

I also want to share with you that I am going to have a new website coming online soon with tons of free stuff for you guys.

Also on the horizon we are going to shake up the community in a good way by releasing some things that I have worked for a long time on...

I want to get out there and meet my readers!! I want to go to your home towns and meet the liar, puas and people that make up the community. So E-MAIL ME NOW!!

Now lets talk about the impossible..

I propose that impossible is simply a state of mind.





Many people would think that they cannot get away with saying things to girls that are so upfront and in your face. Here are some clips from some interactions, then tell me impossible is nothing..

Mayson: Because right now you are trying not to kiss me even you know you want to.
HBrandomblond: You’re a pimp.
Mayson: What?? You’re a pimp?
HBrandomblond: No.. YOU’RE a pimp
Mayson: Euro pimp? Cool!


Mayson: (on the dance floor opens a 4 set by dancing like a nut, girls giggle)
HBgirl1: hahaha my friend loves your style and wants to meet you
Mayson: I left my ticket counter at home but she can ride for a small price.


Mayson: Did you know that drinking pineapple juice changes the taste of cum
Girls: yah it works
Mayson: (the waitress comes over) Do you have any pineapple juice here?

Mayson: (licking a straw) You wish that was you…
HBSinger: Call me later tonight.


Mayson: Do you speak text?
HBonline: Yes and I do it quite often
Mayson: Wow, slow down I said TEXT not SEX


[01:27] HB: that and sexual innuendos are funny
[01:28] HB: there is never a bad time for them
[01:28] Mayson: I agree it is hard to make most people come to the understanding that sexual innuendo is an art form. I have been well endowed with a large amount of skill in this area as well. Oral skills are over looked as many people will struggle grasping the linguistic skills that roll off my tongue. I am sure you understand this concept because you have taken your lickings in life and have learned from them. Through intimate study one will find that penetrating deep understanding of oral talents can produce a very climatic finish!
[01:29] HB: oh
[01:29] HB: my
[01:29] HB: god
[01:29] HB: i
[01:29] HB: love
[01:29] HB: you!

Impossible is nothing.. Push the limits and the limits will change.

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Vegas Report: Gaming the Gamer...

Vegas was filled with lessons, some of them humbling and some of them life changing but when it came time to showcase my game to the dancers in Vegas I was pumped and ready to roll. Granted I have never spent any time doing strip club game so all this theory was in my head understanding how to game the gamers but I knew that I was in for a night that I would not soon forget.

From the night we arrived we were taken to a small strip club and Jamieson and I were on from the minute we entered the club. I had a beer and we began getting the girls to approach one by one and each time they would ask me for a dance I would tell them I am tired and really not thinking about that, I was simply there to grab a drink cause it was close to home. Most of the girls would plow and ask me if they could get me wide awake. I would tell them that they would have to be way over the top to do that. Challenging them to showcase what they had. This worked for initial interest but I soon found that I would have to transition rather quickly.

Through these micro interactions I quickly learned in the space of an hour how to de-program the dancer and get REAL conversations. Finally I was able to use solid game on this girl and her friend. She was a solid 9 and a bitch and a half… JUST the way I like it. She asked me if I wanted a dancer and I began like I have done earlier that night talking about my flight and how I was tired. She told me that I was no fun and I am in Vegas so I should party. At this point I thought…
”well, if she can dish it she better be able to take it.”
I looked at her bewildered and said..
“Wow, you kinda suck at your job huh.”
At this point I began to get hot with embarrassment worried that I pushed it too far but I knew that this was the right thing to do. She leaned back, examined me, smiled and said
“This is my first night.”
She told me how her friend who was dancing on another friend of mine told her she can make great money. I dropped into qualification and she complied… hard.

At this point I got real IOIs, she was not interested in me as a customer but her interest was something deeper and I could see it as she warmed up to me giving me the doggy dinner bowl eyes. I launched into some serious comfort but lacked something that would end up blowing me out with the hottest girl in Vegas later that week. Forty minutes later the girl was still there sharing her life with me showing me her cell phone and telling me how the world is an evil place. I stood my ground and talked about my heroes and how there is good in the world as she proceeded to grind me. She told me that we should all meet up after word and told us the place they are going to about 60 times in rapid succession. We left the place around 7am and I felt like my first experience in strip club game was a success but nothing could have prepared me for what happened next.






The next night we wanted to spend more time in a strip club so I asked what is the most famous place with the HIGHEST quality girls. We got our answer and drove there that night. The place holds 1500 people and there were well over 200 HOT dancers. I was going to need every ounce of skill I had to pull in this place. Walking in was like nothing I expected, girls and guys everywhere and no place to sit. My friend greased the bouncer and he cleared a table for us right away by kicking out these three guys who were sitting there. We ordered a round of drinks and like moths to flame the girls started to come over, it was like they could smell the money and who can blame them, they were there to get paid and on a night like this they would make a TON!

A couple of girls sat on my lap and I would get into conversation easy as this new de-programming tool I created last night was working VERY well. I really wasn’t into any of them and so at this point Jamieson informed us that he was going to find the hottest girl in this place and bring her and her friend over here. Thirty minutes later he delivered. He brought over a smoking hot blond for him and the HOTTEST girl in the entire place for me.

The interaction with HB10 began with her asking me if I wanted a dance. I told her no but I charge 20 bucks and I will dance for her. She gave a sincere laugh and smile and I launched right into my de-programming. There is a hooking point with each of these girls that you can see they kinda just shut off the game and get wrapped up in who you are. Once you get there you know you can get honest qualification. Jamieson said something VERY profound:

“Strippers start in rapport.”

Knowing this it is YOUR job to stop her from rapport and go back into attraction. This was displayed as I was cocky and funny to HB10 and really showed a non-neediness. These things caused an interest to form in her and I ran it as a regular set after she was out of working mode. There is a real shift from her seeing you as a customer to her seeing you as a potential match and this is the most important thing that you can do to get this type of girl.

She sat on my lap giving me free dances for over two hours. She didn’t leave my side except to go to the bathroom and she walked right back to me. I would look over at Jamieson and he would with a stern face nod which seemed to say you are in. At this point in the interaction she pulled out her phone and started texting her friend who was working to meet me. I told her that she had to give me a cute text too, it was only fair. She put in my number and texted me just as I asked, I had just number closed the hottest girls in the place.


It was getting late and she asked me if she could go make some money. I told her she better because we are going to breakfast later. She smiled embraced me and went off to dance for other guys. I would peer over and watch her work these guys and think to myself wow, they think she is into them but as she would dance for them she would look back at me and bite her lip and smile.

At the end of the night we left the club and my friend told me to call her right now. I was beyond tired and thought that if I waited for a bit she would be off work. Words cannot describe how frustrated I still am that I didn’t go get a red bull and call her THAT second. I let buying temperature fall and she wanted to get laid that night, I set up game that was deep comfort without the proper seduction and that is the formula for a relationship. One error at the end of the night cost me the hottest girl I saw in Vegas. I texted her when I got up but never got a reply. I was sure that what I did or in this case didn’t do cost me that interaction but I looked at her number and decided to keep it in my phone. I kept that number because each time I see it I am reminded to escalate the interaction no matter how tired you are. I kept that number because it reminds me that attraction has so little to do with appearance and so much to do with personality.

A long time ago I heard a phrase that came back to haunt me. “The chances you miss most in life are the chances you never take.” I will chalk this one up to experience and a lesson that I will never forget.