Thought for the day... An Apple

Just as the apple contains the ability inside of itself to produce more of its kind, humans produce inside of us the ability to be happy and spread the fruits of happiness in others but we first must realize that we posses this ability.

The Path is Here...

I am really happy to say that Path to Pick Up is finished! I have worked really hard on this for quite sometime and have been lucky to share it with some of you already.

I want to continue to give away free copies of this over the next 4 weeks so I will be holding some contests for free copies. If you are interested in getting a copy of Path to Pick Up Email me at

MaysonPUA@gmail.com

Special thanks to the students who helped improve this product to the work that it is today.

Finally, I will be posting some FRs and LRs that I haven't gotten around to typing up based on this "different" style of game that I have been working on.

I want to hear from you guys.. How are you all doing and where are you at?

All the best,
Mayson

a night out...

.. Back from a night out

You ALWAYS learn when you go out! Whether you teach or whether you are a student there are always lessons for you to learn and here is a glimpse of the lessons tonight..

-Sometime being social can bite you in the ass when you are trying to isolate a target because everyone wants a bit of your time.

Lesson is… Learn to handle obstacles quickly!


-A woman will forgive you for being a man and being sexual…. There is no forgiveness for not pulling the trigger.

Lesson is… PULL THE TRIGGER


-What separates an AFC from a PUA is method. A PUA has a method to the madness an AFC will simply either not do anything or rely on “luck.”

Lesson…. Plan your logistics!


-Everyone has value…. From the guy asking to shine your shoes to the guy parking your car.. We are all people who dream, hope, aspire and react.

Lesson… Inspire greatness in others.



Finally… Sometimes the right thing to do is not get the girl. A friend who doesn’t know anything about the community got this girl that I was working for a bit. I pumped her BT then got pulled away into another set, I came back and he was making out with her. I stood there for a minute to watch my work vanish in the clash of another’s lips on my target. I knew that could have been me but I was not mad. For that guy who I think is a really good dude btw, it was his highlight of the month a least. I turned around to see PLENTY of girls in the club and knew that it was just a matter of approaching to line up the next. He didn’t have the ability to do that, so for him… This was the big time. I could have walked over and stole her back but why would I do that? I like to think that right now he is somewhere getting his groove on thanks in small part to my game.

Lesson.. In a land full of candy there is no reason to be upset over one misplaced piece.

field report.. My day 2

I remember when I got into the community I heard someone say that you should trust your instinct. Now looking back over the last year I can understand what they mean.

Recently I had a day 2 with this girl and we decided to meet for coffee at Barnes. I am a big fan of doing something really low key on day 2’s and then venue bouncing to various locations. She was super shy and so anyone who knows me knows that I joke a lot and it really helped her break down some walls. I started my comfort phase and talked about my childhood and talked about the first book that I read. Now normally this is not part of my comfort game to talk about my first book but since we were in Barnes it was logical to. She smiled and thought it was cute and sarcastically said wow, you really miss that book huh, want to go find it? I laughed.. paused for about 2 seconds and said, “hell yah lets go to the kid’s section.”

We made our way there and she found the book. It was cool because I haven’t seen it in YEARS. I looked at the book for a minute with a smile on my face and told her to sit on the floor I am going to read it to you. Her face got red and I sat on a stool and opened the book. As I finished the first page a couple of kids came over and asked if they could listen. I smiled big and said, “sit down next to this pretty girl and listen in.” Her face had the most sincere smile I have ever seen in my life on it.

As I continued reading an old lady came over and asked me if her son could listen as well. I smiled and said sure. The ladies son wondered around a bit and didn’t pay much attention to the story. As the story finished I got up and the lady came over to me and my date. She apologized for her son’s misbehavior. I told her it was not a big deal he is a kid. She said no you don’t understand he has autism and no one ever reads to him so thank you very much you made his day. My dates face dropped and I smiled and said the pleasure was all mine.

I walked off and she stopped me and grabbed my hand. She told me that she was amazed by me and wants to spend a lot more time together…. I think it went good :P

The lesson here is NOT to go lying about your stories in life so you too might get an autistic kid to read to. The lesson is have fun and give value to EVERYONE cause you just might make someone’s day.

Email me at MaysonPUA@GMAIL.com

Alive?

yes .. I know I know.. it has been awhile but I have been taken some time off to work on other things in my life as well. I always tell people that it is important to have other things going on and man do I ever at this point.

I want to inform all my reader/friends that I am going to take a backseat from teaching for at least a month. I am clearing my schedule and going to use this blog as a back to basics FR, LR and Lifestyle report medium in which we can stay in touch and I can discuss WTF I am thinking. I typically take time off and help "reset" my mind from time to time and it has proved to be very helpful.

As always I will TOTALLY help out by answering questions and I am going to be offering Path to Pick Up as a road map to lifestyle change to everyone via google checkout. So in the next couple of weeks I am going to be really busy on this blog posting away my thoughts not as a teacher but as a student. We NEVER stop being students of the game and believe me I am not even close to a guru so just like you I have much more to learn.

so for now.. Goodbye to teaching.. Hello to back to basics.

Email me your thoughts
MaysonPUA@gmail.com
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Halloween

I love this time of year...

The debauchery of the weekend continues tonight.. Stay tuned for a full wrap up

How to write a story

One question that people ask me consistently is how do a write a story that displays value? So today we are going to talk about just that and I will give you a step by step process so you can write your own stories.


How to write a story that displays value.

First off I do not advocate lying in any way shape or form. Each person on this earth has things about their life that other people will find fascinating and the following will teach you how to harness these life experiences into stories that others will find fascinating as well. In your stories you are NOT bragging at all. You are simply telling a story and flipping an attraction switch in the woman so that she will relate to you.

You must take time and develop and test these stories much like a comedian will take their time and work on a joke. These stories are important and will help you generate conversation when you run out of things to say. It is important to keep in mind that the delivery of these stories must be well thought out and planned. If your tonality and delivery is off then your story will lose its value. Finally, always keep in mind that you body language says more then you can say with a million words so keep that in check when you are delivering your stories.

Basic Principals of Your Story.

Flipping the Switch.
The following are well known attraction switches and your story must convey one or more of these principals.

1. Pre-selected by women.
This basically means that you are and have been selected by other women in your past. This is a hybrid of social proof in which it is more directed toward the individual then a peer group.

2. Leader of men.
This displays that we are the alpha male of our group and we have the confidence to lead other men. This is another hybrid of social proof in the sense that you are displaying your leadership qualities.

3. Protector of loved ones.
You must be willing to protect what you love. She needs to understand that you can protect and watch over her. Understand that this does NOT mean you have to display that you can hold your own in a fight. This means that you can be dominate and defuse situations that arise, all the while protecting her.

4. Willing to emote.
You have to be able to display a range of emotions. You want to take her on a rollercoaster ride with bringing her into that range of emotions from happy to crazy to calm to seductive.


5. The willingness to walk away.
In every interaction with a woman there is a point where you have to make it known that as much as you want her you will not beg and you can and will walk at anytime you find the cost is greater then the reward. This concept is vitally important and can give an immense amount of attraction when done correctly.



How To Write Your Story.

The most efficient way to write your story is to answer the following questions.

What are the three most influential people that you know and what do they do?
What places have you traveled to?
How close with your family are you?
What are you passionate about? (art, music, play instruments)
How many languages can you speak?
Have you had a girlfriend in the past?
If you have been in a relationship before what is one cool thing you did together?
Do you have friends who are girls? What are their names?
What do you do for a living? (student, occupation etc)
Do you own your own house, apt or car? (this is not VITAL but helps)
What do you typically do on the weekends?

Now that you have created this list I want you to look it over and see how things can fit into attraction switches based on your life. For instance, let’s say you have traveled to Ireland to go see your favorite band once. Here is a sentence and explanation how it causes the attraction switch to flip.

So my favorite band is Jane’s Addiction and I saw that they had this massive tour in Ireland. So I called my friend Jaime and told him about it and we should go because I thought it would be an amazing adventure to be in a country that we have never visited to see my favorite band….. /end story

Let’s see how we flip the attraction switches with this short story. So you have musical interests that may or may not be like hers but shows that you have an interest in music without a doubt. From there you took an adventure with a friend which shows pre-selection AND leader of men as well as a sense of fun and adventure. All these things were displayed in just a couple of sentences. Obviously your story has the option of continuing as you talk about the experience and how it felt to be there.

Make sure that you PRACTICE your delivery again and again as this step is crucial because 10% of the message is your actually words and 90% is your body language.




Important Thoughts To Keep In Mind

Never Brag. The difference between bragging and talk is all in how you say it. For instance, if you were tell talk about the time you won a trophy in karate this is bragging.

“So I am awesome at karate and I have won a bunch of trophies.”

Here is how you should word it

“So I have always been passionate about karate and have worked hard at it, eventually I got pretty good.”

You are saying the same thing but it is all in how you word it.

Talk At A Rhythmic Pace. Do not talk to fast because the message will not get across and you will sound like you are nervous. On the other hand if you are slower and rhythmic with your pace you will sound in control and confidant.


Questions? Comments?
EMAIL ME: MaysonPUA@gmail.com