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Hey everyone.. This blog has really been amazing for the past 2 years but since my company New Social Systems (NSS) has been expanding we have rolled the blog over to there, so CHECK IT OUT

NSS BLOG & Mind of Mayson

Audio Interview...

Hey all,
I recently had an interview with Paul from "Enrich Your Love Life." I talked about how to build value, relationship management and building lasting confidence.


LISTEN TO THE AUDIO INTERVIEW NOW
MP3 FORMAT HERE

This was a ton of fun and be sure to check out his blog as well, I added it in my blog roll and it has a ton of value!

Hope you find value in the interview and as always EMAIL ME!!! I want to talk to you all!

MAYSON@NEWSOCIALSYSTEMS.COM

This will change your life.....

You are reading this because you want to get more out of life…

Maybe you are not getting the quality of women you want in your life…. Maybe you are not happy and want more out of life… Maybe you are struggling to get the girl you want. I have great news for you…

WE… CAN… HELP!!

Not only do I think we can help, I KNOW we can help you get the girl, get the life you want and sustain happiness that is LASTING. We have helped hundreds of students all across North America build a life of LASTING change. Let us PROVE it to you LIVE!

May 14^th-16^th at the New Social Systems Dating Mastery Seminar!!

Boston, MA

Learn from New Social Systems instructors Jimmy, Mayson and Doc Holliday live in field! Imagine spending 29+ hours over a weekend working with trained dating, relationship and lifestyle instructors getting instant feedback! We will teach you an in depth system to be able to walk up to any girl and instantly build attraction! You will learn the secrets to LASTING change in your life as well as a system to sustain happiness. We keep our seminars to a limited number of students so that each student will have hours of personal time with the instructors as we go into the field together.

Here is what one of our students said:

“This was a life changing class for me. In stead of “just be me”, the
instructors tried to bring out the best part of me, the part of me I
like to be. In other words, the class taught me how to “be myself.”
This class has provided me a complete picture, from how to
approach girls to dating and relationship management.” – Li

You are probably thinking, “Sounds great but can they really help me?”

I want to prove we can help you! Other companies charge $3,000 dollars for a 25 hour program only to make empty promises.

Why is the NSS Dating Mastery Seminar different and like nothing you have experienced?

Simple… We teach students the skills to become successful in all areas of their life. At New Social Systems we believe that you don’t find yourself, you create yourself. Our coaching programs are tailored to give the most value possible to each and every student who takes our programs. Don’t take our word for it, read what our students have to say!

“The rest went off and Mayson stayed to observe. To my utter surprise (and with the aid of subtle hint from Mayson to end it and get the number) I got her number. Then I opened another set and got her number.” –Greatkisser

“Doc is probably a master at building Comfort. His philosophies on the subject allowed us to see the importance in it, especially when in isolation.” –Chamelon

“Thanks for everything- really. This program has seriously changed my life and guided me on a personal development journey far beyond just seduction.” -Boston

While companies are charging $3000+, so we want to prove that this is a value you cannot pass up. If you sign up NOW you can lock in the price of $795 for this life changing seminar. That’s less than a third of the industry price for a 29+ hour LIVE seminar. Demand is very high; we wanted to make sure that we offered a very reasonable value because we are committed to seeing our students grow in their lives. This WILL sell out so make sure you reserve your spot today!

SIGN UP HERE FOR THE DATING MASTERY SEMINAR

Here is an overview of what we are offering.

18 hours of seminar time/customized debriefing and 11 hours of LIVE in-field coaching:

Day 1: Friday Night: LIVE In Field Training

8pm Dinner Meet up

-Discuss the venue for the night

- Game 101 Lecture and Q&A

10-2am LIVE In field with Coaches

- Live Training with NSS Coaches

2-3am Debrief

Day 2 Saturday: Teaching & LIVE Training

12-1pm: The Female Mind Explained

- Find out what women are really attracted to

- Learn what turns women on

- The secrets of the female psyche

1-3 pm: Attraction Explained

-How to illicit attraction

-Beginning a Conversation

-Screening for compatibility
-Kino Progression

-Push Pull
-How to Cold Read

3-5 pm: Building a Connection

-How to build a connection

- Building authentic connections with women

- Growing your connection

- How love is formed

5-6 pm Dinner Break

6-8 pm Meeting Girls During the Day

-How to meet girls during the day

-LIVE in class exercises

-How to meet, attract and date girls during the day

8-10 pm Meeting Girls at Night

-How to meet, attract and date girls at night

- LIVE in class exercises with NSS Coaches

- How to build deep connections with women at night

9-10 pm Goal Setting and Demo

-Live in class demonstrations

-Personalized 1 on 1 coaching and goal setting

11pm – 2am LIVE Infield NIGHT Training

-LIVE in field NIGHT Training with NSS Coaches

Day 3 Sunday: Teaching & LIVE Training

12-4pm: LIVE Infield DAY Training

-LIVE in field DAY Training with NSS Coaches

- Fashion Breakdown

5-7 pm: Text Game Phone Game Day 2’s

-Learn how to create fun and exciting dates

- Understand the secrets of building a connection through phone calls

- Learn how to maintain attraction and get deeper relationships

7-9pm: Personalized sticking point analysis and Q&A

- NSS coaches personalized feedback session

- In depth question and answer session

Remember, we are here to build relationships, not clients. So what are you waiting for? Sign up now and experience the seminar first hand before it is sold out! This is your life and if you are not getting the results you want here is your chance to change it forever!

SIGN UP HERE FOR THE DATING MASTERY SEMINAR

Get her number in under 10 min: VIDEO

Here is a video we just did for a guy who emailed us a great question!
Want you questions answered?

EMAIL US: INFO@NEWSOCIALSYSTEMS.COM

The Mind of Mayson: "Being a Man"

What does it mean to be a man?

When we are posed with that question many things come to mind. We can talk about confidence, leadership, strength and all of those would be good answers, but what is the core of being a man? In the last 40 years the roles of a man and woman have become more and more blurred. Women in the 1940’s and 1950’s would stay home, raise the children and took on the role of a submissive wife. In the 1960’s and 1970’s feminism took center stage and as more and more divorces happened women became single mothers and left to raise boys on their own. I was a product of a single mother and no father in the 1980’s and I have spent a great deal of my life trying to answer the question of what does it mean to be a man?

Now as we turn the page into 2010 we see these roles barely exist anymore. Men have become dependent, lacking direction, followers, cowards and more than anything irresponsible. In the community we learn about the “attraction switches.” We are taught to be confident but we are never instructed as to WHY this role is important or even HOW to actually sustain confidence.

So what is a man in 2010 and why does this matter to your dating life?

Because being a man is a role that will NEVER disappear. It may seem obvious, but the truth is;

Women… Like… Men..


I want to give you my characteristics of what a man is and what their role is.

Responsibility
Most men believe that being responsible means supporting a family financially. Being responsible means your role is to accept when you are wrong, but live with the mindset that you are right and confident in your ability to make decisions. A man should also contribute to the emotional, spiritual, physical and mental well-being of his family and significant other. This means taking action when the circumstances call for it and doing what it takes to solve issues that arise.


A Protector
A protector means that you can more than just physically protect her from other people; it also means protecting her self-esteem and self-worth. One of the greatest compliments a woman can give a man is to feel safe around him.


A Leader
A good leader takes the lead rather than passively waiting for your spouse or significant other to initiate it. Leadership shows confidence and we all know that confidence is very attracting to a woman. Most guys miss the mark here and view leadership as a one way street. A good leader inspires others to greatness, thus giving value while he leads the relationship or household.


A Mentor
A man of high value is a mentor to others through word and action. Set high standards and teach by doing. He is impeccable with his word and his actions display confidence as well as mentoring others to improve their lives. This is a powerful trait for a man to have because the strength of character it takes to be a mentor shows a wide variety of attraction switches such as: Confidence, leaderships, social proof and social status.

The spineless behavior of men is changing the roles that men and women have and causing men to become submissive, feminine and afraid to take the lead.


The first step to understanding and changing this behavior is becoming dominant.

Dominance does NOT mean that you own another person, simply put dominance means that you have authority over another person. You take the lead and lead the interaction. If we talk about relationships it means that you are the one who leads the relationship, others are along for the ride and offer their input. You do NOT control the other person, she is free to be who she is just as you are free to be who you are, you are simply leading the relationship and she is more than welcome to add input.

A lot of guys mistake dominance for total control…


A relationship is not about control because control is based in fear, a relationship should be founded on love and love is all about freedom. Dominance simply means that you are going to step up and be the man. You are going to lead her and she is going to choose to follow or not. This means making plans, choosing where to eat, setting boundaries and enforcing them.


The next step is Assume leadership.
You are the leader because you are the man. Tell her what you want!! When I counsel people in a relationship I often find the same issue that happens over and over again. Neither person is expressing what they actually want.

You will NEVER get what you want if you do not clearly communicate what you actually want and expect from the other person.

Assuming leadership means that you understand your role as the man in the relationship is to step up and lead. Take authority over your actions and lead the relationship where you want it to go.


Controlling Emotions
One quality of a man that many people overlook is the ability to control emotions. Women are creatures of emotion and thus their moods will change as their emotion’s change. As a man you are responsible for controlling your emotions and not letting your emotions control you. Many times when a man has no father figure and was raised by a mother only he will be a very emotional man. Part of assuming the role of a man though is to have dominance over your emotional well-being as well. Its OK to show emotions, in fact it is vital! However, you need to show restraint and that restraint of emotion is VERY attractive to women.


Becoming Independent
Independence is a major trademark of a man. Independence shows that you can take care of yourself and therefore you can take care of others. Independence shows that you understand the way life works and have broken free from your dependence on others both financially and emotionally.


Having Direction in life
Having a direction in life is another vital role that a man must take on. If you are to be the leader of a relationship or family you must display that you are taking her in a direction she wishes to go and that she has the faith in you to follow. One of the greatest compliments a woman can give a man is that you are multi-dimensional. You have passions other than what she first saw.


Setting standards
In the beginning of any interaction with a woman you are sending signals to each other about where your boundaries are. You communicate these in many ways such as verbal cues, body language and willingness to comply with suggestions. As you set boundaries the woman’s job is to test these boundaries to see if you will keep her in check. As the man allows his boundaries to be broken the woman loses attraction for him. Over time, the woman will leave the man because she loses all respect for him and sees him as an unsuitable partner.

A man sets his standards and keeps them there. One of the greatest phrases that holds true in life is “we teach people how to treat us.” We do this by setting boundaries and then holding others accountable for violating them.

For a final point I will try to answer the question what does it mean to be a man. I guess from all my experiences I can say that we know we are a man when we see one. When you become responsible for your actions you begin to understand the world not from the eyes of selfishness, but from the eyes of selflessness.

Questions or Comments EMAIL US
Mayson@newsocialsystems.com
info@newsocialsystems.com

happiness

I think a lot of time we fall sway to the “I will be happy when” ideology.

I will be happy when I get what I want. This ideology causes a great deal of suffering because we make an agreement with ourselves that we will not be happy until what we want is here. Happiness is never found in anyone or anything, true happiness is a feeling that comes from inside of you.

One of the major keys to happiness is contentment. You must be content with your life right now or you will never achieve greater things because you’re mind will always be in the future wishing for something that has not yet manifested. Happiness is never found outside of us it is always inside. We like to believe that if we had what we wish for that happiness would soon abound but the fact of the matter is that that temporary joy will fade over time until we find something else that we want.

When we seek happiness from external sources we are chasing a dream that will always remain just out of our hands. As we obtain these external things new dreams are formed and we must chase them or risk suffering. When one derives happiness from inside you will take it with you everywhere you go. No one can take your dream away because it is inside of you and cannot be bought, sold or destroyed.

The next key to finding happiness inside of you is to accept what is. It is what it is in your life right now and you must see your life not as good or bad but you are where you are in life right now to learn as much as you can. No matter what you believe is bad in your life relate it to something MUCH worse and you will see you’re problems could be much worse. Nothing is good or bad, big or small it is all in what you relate it to.

Be sure to check out www.newsocialsystems.com

New Social Systems

http://www.newsocialsystems.com/

For a long time now I have been waiting to revel the details of this and finally the day has arrived!

I have been working on a company called New Social Systems for awhile now. I have worked with some great companies in the past and I am proud to say that this one I started with a great coach named Jimmy from the Boston area.

I wanted to create a company that was different then others, what we did is create new social systems for people......

What do we do that is different?

At New Social Systems we are NOT pick up artists....

We help men in three main areas, dating, relationship management and lifestyle improvement.

We teach men the skills to use the tools that we believe they already possess to attract the mate they want. Through our personal coaching and our seminars we give detailed instructions on how to grow relationships as well as how to build the life that you want.

We believe that everyone comes into our seminars in a different place and so we tailor our seminars to the needs of the students.

Whether you want to learn to attract more women or you want to strengthen your relationship or maybe you just want to create a new look, New Social Systems can help you.

Check out some of our success stories!

I am really excited to bring New Social Systems to you guys and I want you to check it out! We are offering tons of FREE content with video blogs, audio seminars and MUCH MORE.

Check us out and sign up on the homepage for a FREE 30 MINUTE AUDIO SEMINAR just for visiting the site.

http://www.newsocialsystems.com/

Feel free to throw me feedback and what you would like to see on the site.

info@newsocialsystems.com

or

Mayson@newsocialsystems.com

Look forward to your questions, comments and feedback..

change...

Huge changes are about to happen...

For awhile I have been talking about changing some things up and next week it finally happens! I have been working with students quite a bit so expect some reviews, free stuff and a new site :)

that which resists...

Over the course of the last couple of weeks there has been a principal that has repeated itself in my life and the lives of the students that I have been teaching and I wanted to share it with you guys...

THAT WHICH RESISTS... PERSISTS...

I am sure most of us have heard the phrase before but I wanted to break it down a bit because I have seen this very concept work time and time again in the field and its something that I believe is a part of a deeper understanding about life.

When you resist against something it gives it energy and make the force that you are resisting that much stronger.

By resisting...
you are reflecting back to you...
the very thing that you do not want...

Let’s take the example of a break up in a relationship. If the woman breaks up with you and you do everything you can to win her back instead of allowing her the space that she wants then you are resisting the break up and thus giving it power. Your focus is not on bettering yourself in this process but resisting the break up. This will cause the break up to persist and to actually become more painful. When you stop resisting and allow yourself the freedom to walk away and give her the gift of allowing her to reassess the situation then you stop giving it power.

The more you resist the things in life by saying
“ no I don’t want that”
you are magnifying the very things in which you don’t want. Spend your time and energy thinking and feeling what you want rather then what you don’t want and watch as it manifests into your life.

This is the principal that is based in the martial art Aikido. You redirect your opponent’s energy and you’re their force against them. You do not resist their attack but redirect it. This principal is universal and holds true for all problems in life.

Though we understand the principal, we now have to put it into action. One way to redirect the resistance is to..

constantly...
be aware of your feelings...

Since your thoughts dictate your feelings, start by thinking positive thoughts. Think of things in the present that you love about yourself or other people. Think of fun times that you have had throughout your life and really get the feeling associated with those times. Stop resisting what you want to change and understand that change is inevitable but growth is optional.

I am going to be talking a lot more about how to develop a new lifestyle mindset and offering some really cool things to the readers.. SO STAY TUNED

As always if you have questions..
MAYSONPUA@GMAIL.COM

Guess Who?

So where have I been? I am sure you are all asking that question and the subject of this blog will subsequently be the answer.

Its easy to get wrapped up in the “lifestyle” of pick up when you begin to become proficient with this. You buy all the books, read all the gurus posts, watch all the material and suffer from what I like to call a pick up bulimia. Everyone knows what bulima is, it is a disease in which a person gorges themselves on food only to vomit it up a short while later.

For a large point in my game I suffered from a form of pick up bulimia in which I would gorge myself on products and anything I could devourer only to throw it up a short time later to other people. My lifestyle was in chaos but my game was growing at a pace that was alarming. I was teaching with companies, getting to meet people that I idolized in the community but I wasn’t healthy. Sure my game was solid but my lifestyle was not conducive to the quality of girls I was meeting. I longed for something to ground me and all the women in the world can never fill the void of self loathing.

I decided that pick up needed to take a back seat and I needed to fix my lifestyle. Other companies love to address that symptoms and not the ailment and tell us that lifestyle will come as your game develops but this is a misnomer. You must take control of your life; no one will do it for you. So I opted to stop teaching, give up opportunities with companies and change my lifestyle for good.

Through this process I knew that I wanted to help students but in a different way then I saw my peers approach it. I think life is managed not cured and I watched far too many teachers and gurus try to cure students.

So I stopped teaching and fixed my life. Eight months later I can say that there are very little things in life that were as important for me to do as the decision that I made eight months ago. My game has been revolutionized and I am finally able to do things that I never was able to before when my lifestyle was in chaos.

So what is next?

I have been working with another dating coach for awhile now to develop a system of learning custom to every student. The way we have been teaching is changing lives and I am so thankful for the students that we have worked with thus far. We are not here to sell you another pill that treats the symptoms of your issues with women and relationships; we are here to

get rid of the disease.

I am going to be updating more on all of this and giving away free lessons from our new model of socialization. Watch of all this and more soon!

Guess Who's Back....

Like the worst case of crabs you thought you got rid of... Guess Who's Back!

the 10!!

There is a great discussion going on in the Boston lair that started with a post I made about picking up the 10. I want to share it with you guys and email me your thoughts! MAYSONPUA@GMAIL.COM

So I want to hear your thoughts on picking up a genuine 10.

Let me first preface this by saying people's rating systems are DRASTICALLY different but universally we can agree within a point that a girl is a 10.

Second let me say that I feel as though in the community we have been infused with ideas from Love Systems and other companies that the principal for picking up a 10 is the same as a 6 just more negs. This is something I am against whole heartedly. I feel that anytime you lower a persons value because your value is lower then hers, then you are just being a value taker.


Specifically, what do you do different when dealing with a 10?
What strategies do you employ?
Be honest, do you even bother with 10s?
If you have ever closed a 10 what did u do the same and or different.

Here are my thoughts... What are your thoughts?
First off let get on the same page with a couple of things.

1) When you see a girl you process your value compared to hers.

Basically this means that when you see a girl you are sizing her up and then placing a value upon her based in a number of qualities, mainly attributed with appearance. This looks based value system continues until conversation is made and then it scales back a small about but as guys we are still driven by appearances.

For the women they too judge appearance but instead of the symmetrical qualities that we as guys look for they are much more concerned with the sub communications and if the guy is taking care of himself. If the guy looks like he took longer to get ready then the woman did then many times they will be turned off. If he looked like he walked out of the forest and hasn’t shaved or showered we all know that, that is a deal breaker as well. The main thing that a woman is looking for upon approach is the subtitle cues WAY MORE then what you are actually saying.

2) Value is a magnet it is dragging around your perception all the time.

This aspect is true for guys and for girls, that PERCIEVED value is a filter in which we view the individual. The reason that I capitalized perceived is because perception often times equates with deception. Remember back about 8 years ago when the magic eyes pictures were all the craze? Basically, it was a picture that upon staring at it for sometime you would see a 3d image. At first all you saw was a scrambled picture with nothing in it, but once you finally got it you could see the actual picture inside it. The first perception was that there was nothing there, upon closer inspection we realize that there was something there and we were deceived at first.

Value works just like the 3d image.

3) This game is about value

To get the girls of exceptional quality one must display value in a way that is congruent with who they are. What I mean by this is since girls respond to value the way we respond to a beautiful girl in a mini-skirt, we must display value in a way that is congruent with who we are. We are not all club owners, promoters, bar tenders and well connected so you must start to display the type of value that is more long term. This brings us to our 4th point.

4) Women think more long term when it comes to value.

Women are constantly thinking about where this will go and what could happen down the road. To display the value that most 10s look for, (and again most 10s are not your average run of the mill club rat, these are the girls who have looks, brains and ambition) you must project your value in a long term setting. Being goal driven in your career and life is something that these rare types of girls will truly be attracted to. This displays a mastery over your sense of self and even biblical texts agree in the book of Proverbs that a people without a vision perish. What this sub communicates about you is that you have a vision for the future and she could share in the fruition of that vision, this excites and stimulates her.

5) Tips, tactics and more

I can tell you all with humility and honesty that I have never closed a 10. I know that in this community we tend to have a chip on our shoulder that closing women makes you better at this game and in some ways, “cooler” among your peers. The truth of the matter is I work as a dating coach, have worked with many people across the US, worked with major pick up companies and through all that I STILL fail. What makes me succeed where others give up is my passion not to wrack up the most lays but to leave women better then I found them. This principal if giving value is ironically something that goes against the grain of much of the mainstream community ideology. We are taught to neg (lower a woman’s value) we are taught to DHV (demonstrate higher value) and all in attempts to finally get her home and have sex. Sure we all want to have sex but the irony is that the more you make a girl feel that she has value beyond replication she is instinctively drawn to you as a moth is drawn to a flame.

To get the 10 takes a mastery of the right combination of value and elusiveness. You must stay just out of her range NOT out of her league. At the end of the day getting the 10 is much more about value, both giving and receiving it rather then negs, backhanded compliments or displaying HIGHER value.

New Look, New Year, New Material!!!

First off HAPPY New Year to everyone out there!! There are so many things that I want to talk about so here we go....

First off I want to announce the FIRST EVER Path to Pick Up Contest!!! I am going to be giving away copies of Path to Pick Up for FREE... All I want you to do is send me your best Field Report from last year. I am going to be looking for Field Reports in which you learned some good lessons!! If you are chosen then you will receive a FREE copy of Path to Pick Up and as you all know its not even on sale yet!

So the contest is simple....

1) Write your best field report from last year in which you learned a valuable lesson
2) Email it to me at MAYSONPUA@GMAIL.COM
3) The contest will run from 1/14- 2/28
4) Check your email for notifications!

For the people who want to just get Path to Pick Up right now.. Well I have news for you coming up as well..

This year I want to hear even more from you guys. I want your questions, comments, complaints and what are you struggling with! I will through out this year be posting questions that I have gotten from you guys and talking about them here.

I also will be starting the first stages of something we call New Social Systems. New Social Systems is a collection of all the lifestyle, dating and relationship counseling that I have been doing over the last year. New Social Systems is going to be a great resource for people who want to live life and live it with abundance. We focus on Health, (mental and physical) Relationships, (attracting a mate and then managing the relationship) and Spirituality. (living with a higher purpose) This is something that we pride ourselves on and you will hear much much more on as the year goes on. You will also have the ability to see us live in cities near you!

Finally I wanted exchange blogs with all my readers!!!!!


I want to link YOUR blogs and create a network of people so we can have more resources at our finger tips. So email me NOW with your blog link and what your blog is basically about and it will be featured on my site!!

MAYSONPUA@GMAIL.COM

See you all soon,
Mayson

As customary I want to take a look at 2008 in review.

Resolutions:

12/24/07
New Years resolutions:

1) Be more social – Expand my social circle and meet more people in general.
2) Be more confidant- For me this means work on inner game quite a bit. I want to be the person that I have always felt lives inside of me. Life is to short to waste on trivial matters and this year I will meet people of like mind who want to be more then they were brought up to be.
3) Kiss 25 different girls- This is a person resolution that Weez and I have decided to adopt as a part of our pick up game
4) Grow my game- This means many things to me. First off I want to learn how to socially interact at a very high level by displaying higher value. I want to learn the social interaction that takes place between high value males and attractive females. This resolution also means to me that I must teach others the skills that I am acquiring. I hope to help change people’s lives through the Venusian Arts.

1) Be more social and expand my social circle.
I started 08 with a core of two people who I consistently hung around. I now have over 75 numbers this year and that is JUST the people that I actually talk to. I work for the clubs that I sarged in as a promoter and one of my best friends owns the place that I first opened a set in night game at. I smashed this goal.

2) Be More Confidant.
Some of the quotes from people in 2008.

HBbootygirl: yah (big smile)… wow your game is so much better then his (points to a friend)

Mayson: Do you go to ____ a lot I know a promoter who works there
HBasian1: Yah I do.. That has to be where it is from..
Mayson: Yah you must have been one of my groupies
HBasian1: haha I love your style I totally would be

HBgirl1: hahaha my friend loves your style and wants to meet you

HBrandomblond: You’re a pimp.

HB9: “You are fucking gorgeous.”

These are just some of the things that girls have said that I documented in my journal. This doesn’t count the banter, countless IOIs etc. I wanted to be confidant and I didn’t find my confidence in others but with their constant complementing I did realize that I possessed it all along.

3) Kiss 25 different girls.
I thought that this was going to be the hardest part of 08. Before 08 I don’t think I kissed 25 different girls in my entire life. This goal has been a GREAT learning experience and I am proud to say it has been completed!

4) Grow my game.
I wanted to teach others this style of game that through the GREAT help of learning from people like Doc Holliday, Ganglord, Entropy, Saffron, Stallion, Hollywood, El Topo, Captain Jack and so many more I found what works for me. I created new social systems that I have never even thought of before. These new social systems have changed my game and have yielded some amazing results not only with women but with everyone I come in contact with.

I taught with Practical Pick-Up as their approach coach this year. I went to Vegas to teach with the Art of Charm and Race and Kelly and learned from the students and teacher there as well. I did multiple one on ones and watched students with physical ailments rise above their handicap and pull some beautiful girls. I finished the Path to Pick Up, my first ever ebook which is a new social system to getting the life people crave. I smashed this goal and I could not be more proud of myself for the accomplishments that I made.



And now a year in review, 2008.

2008 comes to a close I sit humbled by the experiences that I have had. I was able to travel in and out of the country teaching these New Social Systems to people. I met some amazing friends and build the foundations of future friendships.

In 2008 I continued to lose weight dropping another 40 lbs losing over 80 lbs since I began this journey. I have kept this weight off for over a year.

In 2008 I launched my career building websites and graphic design projects for companies all over the country. I struggled with money but somehow I found a way to keep it all going.

In 2008 I build countless friendships and get to work as a club promoter. I have build such a strong social circle that I don’t pay to get into a club anywhere in the area and I never have to wait in line. I am treated like a celebrity in any club that I go in.

In 2008 I saw that bright lights of Vegas. I was not only able to number close the HOTTEST stripper I have ever seen but I was able to get paid to go out and teach the skills that I learned a year ago.

In 2008 I had more sex then I have ever had in my life, kissed more girls then I have ever in my life and been around women more then I EVER have in my life.

In 2008 I watched some of my friend who hated this change not only embrace it but ask how they can learn the social systems that I have learned.

In 2008 I fell in love with who I am as a person and know that with hard work the sky is not even the limit for my potential.


Game is not about wracking up lays to take vengeance on women for your hurt in life. Game is about improving yourself that you can share your best self with people who deserves it.

Thought for the day... An Apple

Just as the apple contains the ability inside of itself to produce more of its kind, humans produce inside of us the ability to be happy and spread the fruits of happiness in others but we first must realize that we posses this ability.

The Path is Here...

I am really happy to say that Path to Pick Up is finished! I have worked really hard on this for quite sometime and have been lucky to share it with some of you already.

I want to continue to give away free copies of this over the next 4 weeks so I will be holding some contests for free copies. If you are interested in getting a copy of Path to Pick Up Email me at

MaysonPUA@gmail.com

Special thanks to the students who helped improve this product to the work that it is today.

Finally, I will be posting some FRs and LRs that I haven't gotten around to typing up based on this "different" style of game that I have been working on.

I want to hear from you guys.. How are you all doing and where are you at?

All the best,
Mayson

a night out...

.. Back from a night out

You ALWAYS learn when you go out! Whether you teach or whether you are a student there are always lessons for you to learn and here is a glimpse of the lessons tonight..

-Sometime being social can bite you in the ass when you are trying to isolate a target because everyone wants a bit of your time.

Lesson is… Learn to handle obstacles quickly!


-A woman will forgive you for being a man and being sexual…. There is no forgiveness for not pulling the trigger.

Lesson is… PULL THE TRIGGER


-What separates an AFC from a PUA is method. A PUA has a method to the madness an AFC will simply either not do anything or rely on “luck.”

Lesson…. Plan your logistics!


-Everyone has value…. From the guy asking to shine your shoes to the guy parking your car.. We are all people who dream, hope, aspire and react.

Lesson… Inspire greatness in others.



Finally… Sometimes the right thing to do is not get the girl. A friend who doesn’t know anything about the community got this girl that I was working for a bit. I pumped her BT then got pulled away into another set, I came back and he was making out with her. I stood there for a minute to watch my work vanish in the clash of another’s lips on my target. I knew that could have been me but I was not mad. For that guy who I think is a really good dude btw, it was his highlight of the month a least. I turned around to see PLENTY of girls in the club and knew that it was just a matter of approaching to line up the next. He didn’t have the ability to do that, so for him… This was the big time. I could have walked over and stole her back but why would I do that? I like to think that right now he is somewhere getting his groove on thanks in small part to my game.

Lesson.. In a land full of candy there is no reason to be upset over one misplaced piece.

field report.. My day 2

I remember when I got into the community I heard someone say that you should trust your instinct. Now looking back over the last year I can understand what they mean.

Recently I had a day 2 with this girl and we decided to meet for coffee at Barnes. I am a big fan of doing something really low key on day 2’s and then venue bouncing to various locations. She was super shy and so anyone who knows me knows that I joke a lot and it really helped her break down some walls. I started my comfort phase and talked about my childhood and talked about the first book that I read. Now normally this is not part of my comfort game to talk about my first book but since we were in Barnes it was logical to. She smiled and thought it was cute and sarcastically said wow, you really miss that book huh, want to go find it? I laughed.. paused for about 2 seconds and said, “hell yah lets go to the kid’s section.”

We made our way there and she found the book. It was cool because I haven’t seen it in YEARS. I looked at the book for a minute with a smile on my face and told her to sit on the floor I am going to read it to you. Her face got red and I sat on a stool and opened the book. As I finished the first page a couple of kids came over and asked if they could listen. I smiled big and said, “sit down next to this pretty girl and listen in.” Her face had the most sincere smile I have ever seen in my life on it.

As I continued reading an old lady came over and asked me if her son could listen as well. I smiled and said sure. The ladies son wondered around a bit and didn’t pay much attention to the story. As the story finished I got up and the lady came over to me and my date. She apologized for her son’s misbehavior. I told her it was not a big deal he is a kid. She said no you don’t understand he has autism and no one ever reads to him so thank you very much you made his day. My dates face dropped and I smiled and said the pleasure was all mine.

I walked off and she stopped me and grabbed my hand. She told me that she was amazed by me and wants to spend a lot more time together…. I think it went good :P

The lesson here is NOT to go lying about your stories in life so you too might get an autistic kid to read to. The lesson is have fun and give value to EVERYONE cause you just might make someone’s day.

Email me at MaysonPUA@GMAIL.com

Alive?

yes .. I know I know.. it has been awhile but I have been taken some time off to work on other things in my life as well. I always tell people that it is important to have other things going on and man do I ever at this point.

I want to inform all my reader/friends that I am going to take a backseat from teaching for at least a month. I am clearing my schedule and going to use this blog as a back to basics FR, LR and Lifestyle report medium in which we can stay in touch and I can discuss WTF I am thinking. I typically take time off and help "reset" my mind from time to time and it has proved to be very helpful.

As always I will TOTALLY help out by answering questions and I am going to be offering Path to Pick Up as a road map to lifestyle change to everyone via google checkout. So in the next couple of weeks I am going to be really busy on this blog posting away my thoughts not as a teacher but as a student. We NEVER stop being students of the game and believe me I am not even close to a guru so just like you I have much more to learn.

so for now.. Goodbye to teaching.. Hello to back to basics.

Email me your thoughts
MaysonPUA@gmail.com
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Halloween

I love this time of year...

The debauchery of the weekend continues tonight.. Stay tuned for a full wrap up